On the one hand, they say to park far away from your destination, in order to get exercise walking the distance between. Depends on the area and how well you know it.
However, when it is dark, park as close as you can and in a well-lighted area. No valuables should be visible in the car. Lock the car doors.
When alone, use the elevator instead of the stairs.
A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, and in the back seat. The less clutter there is in your car, the easier it will be to note that something is wrong.
b) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. You could be pulled into a van while attempting to get into the car.
d) Have your car keys out and ready before you reach your car.
e) Once in your car, lock the doors and leave. Do not sit and organize your purse or check the receipts, etc.
The main thing is to be alert and aware of your surroundings. Keep an eye on suspicious-looking people, and be ready to run or scream. Hopefully you will at least be able to get into your car, lock the doors, and drive off.
